Comments on Sadie, Sadie, (UN) Married Lady: Broken

I don't know - I think you can't get throu...

2011-10-22T08:21:05.164-06:00

I don't know - I think you can't get through the traumas of life and hold onto that dizzying "head over heels" sort of thing. I had it with my first marriage, but I think a more mature love, scars and all, is also a pretty wonderful thing.

I think I've commented on this ad nauseum. It...

2011-10-20T23:32:05.110-06:00

I think I've commented on this ad nauseum. It's natural that you have doubts and feel broken. I would think it unnatural if you DIDN'T. Having said that, you know how I feel about THOSE kinds of "oh, we're so fabulously in love" kinds of relationship. The "soul mates" thing doesn't work for me. I need someone who loves me, respects me, is loyal to me,

I am sorry you are so my child, but it ain't a...

2011-10-20T18:02:14.275-06:00

I am sorry you are so my child, but it ain't all bad. I don't know how to tell you to feel any different, because I cannot. But, I am happy and I can make other people happy. Looking at a relationship realistically isn't such a bad deal, it can prevent some of the highs, but it also avoids some of the lows. I love you.

One thing I think I learned during grief counseli...

2011-10-20T07:55:10.637-06:00

One thing I think I learned during grief counseling, is that it changes you. You are a changed person. The reason marriages fall apart after a traumatic loss is that you don't necessarily still love the person that your spouse has changed into.

That being said, you know that you have changed and that you are not the same person you were 15 years ago. But he fell in love with