tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-32473633.post1538804241481664681..comments2011-05-23T20:45:40.379-06:00Sadiehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05970457532005085242noreply@blogger.comBlogger8125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-32473633.post-64016850969535756702011-05-23T20:45:40.379-06:002011-05-23T20:45:40.379-06:00

Maggie May:<br />Thanks for commenting!! Actually anythings helpful that helps me see what real, &quot;normal,&quot; relationships can be. I&#39;m learning as I go...

Sadiehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05970457532005085242noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-32473633.post-18842273602779634522011-05-23T16:43:10.488-06:002011-05-23T16:43:10.488-06:00

I&#39;m new here so I don&#39;t want to get too wordy, but I&#39;ve been married 8 years, with four kids, and marriage for me is part romantic hot love story and part non profit organization. <br /><br />That&#39;s not helpful, is it!?

Maggie Mayhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14699674732274478502noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-32473633.post-47353008607176608672011-05-19T12:38:47.273-06:002011-05-19T12:38:47.273-06:00

Secret agent woman: It made me laugh out loud! But it was so perfectly true.<br /><br />Songbird: I guess I keep wanting to hear your bottom line b/c I keep posting stuff that calls for it. :) I really appreciate hearing it! And marriage as a business makes sense to me... marriage as a fairy tale sure hasn&#39;t panned out for me. ;)

Sadiehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05970457532005085242noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-32473633.post-83966147978007657022011-05-19T11:46:57.650-06:002011-05-19T11:46:57.650-06:00

There are so many things I COULD say, but you probably know what the bottom line is as I have mentioned it before. A few times. ;) Call me a cynic because I don&#39;t believe in love-at-first-sight-he&#39;s-my-soulmate propaganda that, but I think if you two are trusted friends, partners, and lovers, then the business of marriage is not unthinkable. And yes, I believe marriage is a business.

Desert Songbirdhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14320552900816326120noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-32473633.post-18868742227315755902011-05-18T17:35:10.358-06:002011-05-18T17:35:10.358-06:00

Ha! I say that sort of thing to patients all the time!

secret agent womanhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03763879283931347382noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-32473633.post-57013402151974264932011-05-11T09:56:45.933-06:002011-05-11T09:56:45.933-06:00

Oh, puleeze- First date 8/2, wedding 11/27. 1996<br /><br />Still waiting on the other shoe to drop! LOL!

Gaylehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03379222013493709899noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-32473633.post-71240258079642266442011-05-11T07:50:51.504-06:002011-05-11T07:50:51.504-06:00

Gayle:<br /><br />Snapped! Lol! Good show...<br /><br />Is 4 1/2 months your dating to engaged record? We&#39;ve already passed that... And he hasn&#39;t met my family yet. Though that is happening Memorial Day. :)<br /><br />You&#39;re right. Neither of them became suddenly crappy partners AFTER the wedding. Why didn&#39;t I think of that before?

Sadiehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05970457532005085242noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-32473633.post-49788773945799257182011-05-10T20:04:23.840-06:002011-05-10T20:04:23.840-06:00

Sadie, Sadie, Sadie...What can I say? He is NOT either one of those D-bags, and you shouldn&#39;t expect the same behavior from him. And you have watched enough episodes of Snapped to deal with it if he changes. LOL! Which leads to point #2. In my opinion, people don&#39;t change.... So if he&#39;s good now, why would you expect him to be worse later? He will stay good.<br /><br />Are you

Gaylehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03379222013493709899noreply@blogger.com